Very strong and lethal? Neither.
First, gay movement implies that one chooses to be gay. Sorry. If that were true, most of the gays of my generation would be straight. They are not. We'll look at some of the science of this a little later in this post.
The strength of the LGBTQ Community is that we are second class citizens who are begging for equality. If we were "strong" we would already be equal. We are not. If we were so strong, it would not be legal to fire a person for being gay, as is the case in most states. As noted in the graphic, below, it is legal to fire someone based solely on their sexuality in twenty-nine states (thanks to GLAAD). This is why ENDA (the Employment Non-Discrimination Act) is so important.
What is lethal about being gay is the environment that bullies and liars create. Most gays and lesbians who are not confronted with unnecessary challenges would live normal lives. The myth of short lifespans was published as a now discredited set of studies by Paul Cameron. There was also a Canadian study exploring lifestyles in Vancouver thirty years ago which has its authors asking that it not be used to spread homophobia.
Bottom line, is that the LGBTQ Community exists in a struggle for political and legal equality, not strength. Our lifestyles are varied, but not inherently lethal.
Not at all true. First, the goal of the LGBTQ Community is acceptance, not coercion. Even if we wanted to sway people to a different sexual orientation, it is unlikely that we would often succeed. This is not hyperbole. This is the belief of our major medical and psychological organization.
On Tuesday of this week the American Psychological Association, the American Psychiatric Association, the National Association of Social Workers, the American Medical Association, the American Academy of Pediatrics, the American Psychoanalytical Association, and several of the California chapters filed an Amicus Curiae Brief with the United States Court of Appeals for the Ninth Circuit.
II. Homosexuality Is A Normal Expression of Human Sexuality, Is
Generally Not Chosen, And Is Highly Resistant To Change.
That is the title from a section that starts on page 17 of the pdf. A little more from that section:
Current scientific and professional understanding is that the core feelings that form the basis for adult sexual orientation typically emerge between middle childhood and early adolescence, without any necessary prior sexual experience.
The Brief goes on to refute claims of reparative therapy.
I am wide awake. Unlike pedophilia, homosexuality is about sex between consenting adults. Children cannot give legal consent. Even if children appear to be consensual, one cannot assume that they understand sexuality and its benefits and consequences. Sex with children is wrong. Correlating adult homosexuals with pedophiles is wrong.
The most famous pedophile so far this year is Jerry Sandusky, with all of the information not yet in. Please note that Mr. Sandusky appeared to be a heterosexual. In fact, buried in the FBI statistics, most pedophiles are male and most of their victims are female (not that any sexual abuse of a child should be seen as heterosexual or homosexual, it is child abuse period.)
No. Making this all caps does not make it more true, only more annoying. Our sexuality is inherent. Yelling that it is chosen does not change the medical and psychological facts.
In fact, you are condemning me and all other gays. What I need is not help but to be left alone to live my life without your harassment.
No one is teaching children to be homosexual or heterosexual in our schools. That is among the big lies of those who have been challenging California's SB-48 legislation, the The Fair, Accurate, Inclusive, and Respectful (FAIR) Education Act. What is being taught is that we should tolerate and accept each other, both in what we have in common and in how we differ.
I don't know what you mean by "taught life". Schools are expected to teach children to become adults and handle the variety of situations that life will throw at them. To prepare students, we teach them about math and language, physical exercise and sports, and the complexities of society. We don't teach children how to be sexual. We teach life skills, not life styles.
I can only assume that you want schools to ignore parts of society that you don't like. So, you want your sons to be taught lies. Homosexuality is real and there are homosexuals in every culture and have been for all of recorded history. Pretending otherwise is a lie.
There is no single "homosexual lifestyle". Just as for heterosexuals, some attend more parties than others; some do more community service and give to charity more than others; some work to save the world while others waste the resources we have. Stereotyping of either homosexuals or heterosexuals is not useful.
We agree that bribery is awful. It is awful no matter who is doing so. When the National Organization for Marriage is offering two million dollars to New York State Senators that is wrong.
Using phrases like "this lifestyle" and "a manditory taught practice in school" is lying. Not useful for any meaningful dialogue.
Rather than continue the hyperbole, let's look at the real information about LGBTQ people and their relationships. The following is from section III of the Amicus Brief we talked about previously.
III. Sexual Orientation and Relationships.
Like heterosexuals, gay and lesbian people want to form stable, long-lasting relationships, and many of them do: numerous studies of gay and lesbian people show that the vast majority of participants have been in a committed relationship at some point in their lives, that large proportions are currently in such a relationship (40-70% of gay men and 45-80% of lesbian women), and that many of those couples have been together 10 or more years. Recent surveys based on probability samples support these findings. Data from the 2010 US Census shows that same-sex couples headed more than 600,000 US households and more than 90,000 in California, including more than 18,000 married couples in California and more than 130,000 married couples in the United States.
Empirical research demonstrates that the psychological and social aspects of committed relationships between same-sex partners closely resemble those of heterosexual partnerships. Like heterosexual couples, same-sex couples form deep emotional attachments and commitments. Heterosexual and same-sex couples alike face similar issues concerning intimacy, love, equity, loyalty, and stability, and they go through similar processes to address those issues. Empirical research also shows that gay and lesbian couples have levels of relationship satisfaction similar to or higher than those of heterosexual couples.
Perhaps I should have simply deleted the hate and lies of "Anonymous". I was tempted to do so. But, it is sometimes important to respond to lies with truth instead of ignoring the hate and just moving on.